THE

SANCTUARY

with Mary Lofgren

A place to step out of the noise, quiet self criticism, and relax into the pleasure of the senses, the wisdom of the body, and the power of the present moment

We believe in the power of the pause.

With all the distractions and pressures that life brings, slowing down to pause is a radical act.

Pausing to breathe-in the beauty of connection.

Pausing to be tender.

Pausing to listen to our inner voice.

Pausing to consider what we really think and feel, instead of what everybody else thinks and feels.

Pausing to rest and digest before we take in more.

There is great magic in the sacred pause.

Everything in life transforms with the quality of our presence.

There are multitudes of ways to come home to ourselves: meditation, fasting, vision quests, just to name a few.

Some of us crave a path to presence that glitters with beauty, sensuality, and simple pleasures.

Here, you’ll find a collection of bite-sized rituals & luxurious lessons to infuse life with wonder, one simple pleasure at a time.

Unfold into beauty & perfume life with play

Step Inside The Sanctuary

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How We Flow

Each month we explore a different theme, infused into your life in small spoonfuls through a private podcast, live weekly practices, and rich resources.

Indulge in a weekly listening salon & ritual of loveliness

Indulge in a 15-minute, charmed lesson + small ritual of loveliness, every week.

This private podcast folds Mary’s signature style of teaching with warmth and humor, into bite sized lessons for ease and simplicity.

These audios focus on transforming tiny corners of life into portals of wonder and luxury, one 15-minute ritual at a time.

Together we’ll bring divinity into dishwashing, practice the secrets of sensual living, make skincare sacred, nourish our neural pathways, and so…much…more.

A Private Podcast from Mary

  • June •  Little Sensory Touches

    Small, sensory touches to create peace in the mind, home & heart

    July • Sacred Skincare + Blissful Beauty

    Simple, sacred skincare methods that reveal spellbinding radiance 


    August • Luxurious Living Spaces

    Explore the tiny details that turn your home into a luxurious, cozy haven


    September • Beautify Your Neural Pathways

    Befriend the wild workings of the mind & nurture neural pathways filled with love and beauty

    October • Ritual & Witchery

    Spice up your spiritual practice with the magic of nature + cast spells through your senses 


    November • Rediscover The Joy of Food

    Reclaim the simple pleasure of eating, and reignite a spark of passion & creativity

    December •  A Sacred Solstice

    A slow integration of the year past and a sacred celebration of the year to come


    January • Embodied New Beginnings

    How to create your new year intentions using the magic of the body’s natural magnetism

    February • Self Romance & Self Seduction

    A sensuous, romantic, delicious approach to the old banger practice of self love


    March• The Art of Charm

    How tiny infusions of charm can layer endless delight into your days


    April • Divine Decluttering

    A sacred approach to the art of spring cleaning, straight from the lips of a Virgo 


    May • Fulfilling Friendships

    The art of creating meaningful friendships that nourish the heart and dazzle the soul



    Titles subject to change

Monthly Topics

  • June •  Little Sensory Touches

    Small, sensory touches to create peace in the mind, home & heart

  • July • Sacred Skincare + Blissful Beauty

    Simple, sacred skincare methods that reveal spellbinding radiance

  • August • Luxurious Living Spaces

    Explore the tiny details that turn your home into a luxurious, cozy haven

  • September • Beautify Your Neural Pathways

    Learn how to befriend the wild workings of the mind & nurture neural pathways filled with love & beauty

  • October • Ritual & Witchery

    Spice up your spiritual practice with simple, sensory magic & beauty based prayers

  • November • Rediscover The Joy of Food

    Reclaim the simple pleasures of food, and reignite a spark of passion & creativity

A Live, Weekly Practice Circle

30-minutes to fill your cup, recharge, and connect with community

It’s hard to practice alone. Self starting takes alot of energy. That’s why we don’t do it!

With community to practice in and guidance to follow, it’s much easier to reap the rewards of consistent practice.

Each week we gather for 30-minutes of guided feminine embodiment & mindfulness practices, in community. We follow a rotation of:

  • Rejuvenating Beauty Rituals

  • Soulful Writing Rituals

  • Candlelit Movement Rituals

  • Heartfelt Coaching & Connection

Our schedule is designed to accommodate multiple time zones and preferences. Check out the schedule here.

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A Self-Guided Garden of Resources & Rituals

Access Mary’s curated collection of pre-recorded rituals & resources. Inside this garden you’ll find:

  • 10 Qoya Inspired Movement Videos, led by Mary

  • 5 Sensual Living Meditations

  • Playlists, Products, Book Recommendations, & More

“I walked out of every session feeling a renewed energy & zest for life.”

Michelle Weigle

Mary’s meditations are like a siren song, each one is a warm comforting hug to the nervous system.

Sonia Figueroa

I feel completely present in my body when I hear the loving guidance of Mary’s voice, prompts, and visuals.

Miranda Wildman

Included With Annual Memberships

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Annual members receive a special savings, plus these three special benefits

Soothing, Seasonal Virtual Retreats

Savor + celebrate the change of season through your senses

Align with the rhythms of nature and cultivate the simple joys of each season. These seasonal virtual retreats offer a sacred space to digest the season past, and welcome the unique joys, flavors, and pleasures of the season to come. Our next retreat, “The Pleasures of Autumn”, is coming up on October 5th.

The Art of Self Massage

Receive the gift of self love through touch with my signature course, The Art of Self Massage.

With 8 on-demand videos of beautiful, relaxing massage routines for the face, neck, legs, feet, belly, chest and head, this course brings tranquility, relaxation and sovereignty in one beautiful, luxurious package.

The embodiment process Mary leads you through is utter magic.

LeAnn Dameron

“Life-changing. I have never seen such radical changes in my life in such a short amount of time.”

Ivy R.M

“Mary has revolutionized personal development through femininity. Every lesson is like a detox tea and a cocktail all in one.”

Xandra Sunglim Burns

Life will always be wild, messy, & imperfect.

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Let’s create beauty with it anyway.

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JOIN THE SANCTUARY

$95/month

• A flexible way to join the journey, with the ability to cancel anytime

• Access to a month of gems at a time, including:

☑ A weekly Private Podcast & Masterclass from Mary

☑ 3 Live Practice Circles/month

☑ The Resource & Ritual Garden

☑ A Private Online Community to connect with Mary & other members

X Four Soothing, Seasonal Retreats

X The Art of Self Massage Course

$890/year

• A $250 savings

• Access to a full year of gems, including:

☑ A weekly Private Podcast & Masterclass from Mary

☑ 3 Live Practice Circles/month

☑ The Resource & Ritual Garden

☑ A Private Online Community to connect with Mary & other members

☑ Four Soothing, Seasonal Retreats

☑ The Art of Self Massage Course

FAQ’s

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  • No. Our community is mostly made up of women and femmes, but The Sanctuary is open to anyone seeking a more feminine way of being in their day to day life.

  • We think of growth and mental health like a house: therapy provides the foundation for a safe and steady space, personal growth provides the furnishings.

    The safety and well being of our community members is our top priority. Mindfulness can be supportive, and it can also be triggering when there is active trauma on board. Personal growth containers are not a substitute for therapy, and can sometimes distract from the very important foundational work of therapeutic healing.

    Therefore, if you are experiencing a time of instability, serious depression and/or anxiety, or are actively recovering from serious trauma or PTSD, we gently suggest that you not join the Sanctuary until you feel you are in a place of stability.

    Mary is a certified Feminine Embodiment Coach, which is a trauma sensitive method of coaching. It is not, however, trauma centric, and is not indicated for the direct healing or resolution of trauma.

    If you are in a recovery process, we may ask for a note from a therapist confirming that it is safe to participate in a coaching container before joining.

    We wish you and all humans grace and support on the journey of healing. If you have any questions on this or any of our policies, please reach out to hello@schoolofsensualliving.com.

  • We don’t offer scholarships, but we do offer a Resource Redistribution Rate for those who identify as BIPOC, Gender Variant, Sexy Sage (Over the age of 65), Folks with Disabilities, or Single Parent. We also offer this rate to those who live in countries where there is a -3.0 or more difference in the exchange of currency to USD.

    Offering this rate is an effort towards the redistribution of resources to those don't experience the same level of privilege as folks who are white, cisgender, able bodied, heteronormative, etc. 

    We are sorry but we do not have a financial hardship rate available at this time.

    Click here to learn more and apply.

  • You 'betcha. All live gatherings will be recorded and available in the online Sanctuary Library.

    Monthly members receive a month's access to content at a time, while annual members receive access to the full library of recordings for 12 months.

  • Each month we explore a different theme, infused into your life in small spoonfuls. The Sanctuary is delivered in a three weeks on, one week off format.

    The first three weeks of the month, you'll receive a Weekly Audio Charm & Ritual of Loveliness, as well as a live, 30-minute practice in the Sanctuary Spa (see the spa schedule here.)

    The fourth week of the month we take a Sacred Pause, with no new content or gatherings released, to rest, digest, and make space for the next month’s delights.

    (On months where there is a 5th week, we feature amazing special guests.)

  • We do not offer refunds for month to month purchases, but you can cancel anytime before the 30 day renewal mark, and you will not be charged again.

    If you purchase the annual membership (yay! welcome!) and after 14 days you feel the experience is not for you, you can request a refund for your purchase amount, less a 10% processing/admin fee.

Find calm through beauty and peace through pleasure